Is it me, or does getting older really stinks after 21! I know Hallmark will try to sell us on the big 3-0 and 40 gets a little fan fare as well. Still, there is nothing like your 21st birthday! I remember it fondly. No children, no credit card bills, no mortgage, or ADULT responsibility. Also, lacking at that time was real REAL wisdom and knowledge that only living can bring. At least, that is what I tell myself each year as I approach another birthday. Well, last year I reached a milestone year and celebrated with a party, cake, and lots of Tequila. I am trying to find an exciting activity or gift from me to me to ease the pain of growing one year older and wiser! Any suggestions ladies? I have a wish list, wanna hear it?